You Love God. So, Why Do Relationships Feel Unsafe?

You pray.
You serve.
You lead.

But when someone gets too close… something shifts.

You overthink their tone.
You fear their silence.
You withdraw before they can reject you.
Or you cling so tightly that you suffocate the very connection you long for.

This is not a demon. It is attachment.

Attachment theory reveals the invisible emotional architecture that forms in your earliest relationships. A blueprint that now governs how you love, trust, confront, forgive, and even how you experience God. Long before theology shaped you, attachment shaped you.
It shaped:

• How you handle conflict
• How you respond to correction
• How you interpret distance
• How you process disappointment
• How you lead people

Some people pursue closeness but fear abandonment. Others protect themselves through independence and emotional distance. Some fluctuate between craving intimacy and pushing it away.

These are adaptive survival strategies, and what once protected you may now be limiting you.
Unresolved attachment wounds do not disappear in adulthood; they become patterns:

• Control masked as leadership.
• People-pleasing disguised as kindness.
• Emotional shutdown labelled as strength.
• Spiritual bypassing instead of emotional healing.

You can be anointed and still be triggered.
You can preach faith and still fear intimacy.
You can carry vision and still lack emotional security.

Attachment theory gives you language for what you have felt but never understood.

In this course, you will:

• Discover your attachment style and how it formed
• Understand the psychological and neurological roots of relational patterns
• Identify trauma responses hidden beneath spiritual language
• Learn how attachment impacts marriage, parenting, leadership, and ministry
• Develop emotional regulation and secure relational bonds
• Rebuild internal stability that increases confidence and capacity

When attachment becomes secure:
• Conflict no longer feels catastrophic,
• Correction no longer feels like rejection,
• Silence no longer feels like abandonment,
• Leadership no longer feels threatening.

Do not normalise patterns that God wants to heal. Enroll in the Attachment Theory Course today.